Professional dancer Ezra Sosa discussed how his Mormon upbringing in Utah shaped his journey of coming out as gay in a recent interview.
Sosa's experience highlights the tension between religious tradition and professional identity for LGBTQIA+ performers in mainstream entertainment. His story provides insight into the psychological hurdles faced by those attempting to balance a conservative background with a public career.
Sosa, who is 25 [2], grew up in a conservative household in Utah [1, 2]. During his conversation with E! News, he said he navigated the complexities of his identity while pursuing his career in dance. He described the emotional weight of his upbringing and its influence on his path toward self-acceptance.
While pursuing his goals, Sosa encountered external pressure regarding his visibility on television. He said, "I was told by many people—not by anyone a part of the show—that I couldn't be openly gay on Dancing With the Stars, that's really hard to hear, especially when that's your biggest dream."
Sosa said these warnings did not come from the production of the show itself. Despite these external discouragements, he has continued his work as a professional on the program while serving as a role model for the LGBTQIA+ community [1, 2].
By sharing these experiences, Sosa aims to address the challenges of being openly gay on a mainstream TV competition. He said authenticity is important in a professional environment where some still believe visibility might hinder success [1, 2].
“I was told by many people... that I couldn't be openly gay on Dancing With the Stars”
Sosa's account underscores a lingering cultural gap between the inclusive policies of modern entertainment productions and the external perceptions of the audiences or peers they serve. His specific mention of a Mormon upbringing in Utah adds a layer of intersectional struggle, illustrating how regional and religious identities can complicate the process of achieving professional visibility for LGBTQIA+ individuals in the U.S.





