Actress Saki Aibu appeared at the 18th Best Mother Award ceremony in 2026 [1] to discuss her approach to raising her children.
Her appearance highlights the tension between public recognition of motherhood and the daily realities of parenting, offering a candid look at the challenges of balancing discipline with affection.
Aibu, who is a mother of two [2], shared an anecdote about her son's reaction to her nomination. According to Aibu, her son asked, "Can a mama who gets angry this much still get the Best Mother Award?" [3]
In response to the question, Aibu said, "Then let's check, and if they say it's okay, maybe it's alright to receive it" [3].
Beyond the humor of the exchange, Aibu detailed her philosophy on child development. She emphasized the importance of recognizing that children are independent individuals with their own perspectives. "They have their own way of thinking and sensitivity, and I make it a point to always keep in mind that they are completely different people from me when I act," Aibu said [3].
Reports on Aibu's age vary between 39 [4] and 40 [5] years old. She has been married since May 2016 [5].
By sharing these moments, Aibu aims to promote a parenting style that respects a child's individuality, while acknowledging that perfection is not a requirement for maternal success.
“"Can a mama who gets angry this much still get the Best Mother Award?"”
Aibu's public admission of her 'angry' moments as a mother serves to humanize the ideal of the 'Best Mother,' potentially reducing the pressure on parents to maintain an image of flawlessness. By prioritizing the child's individuality over parental control, her approach reflects a broader shift toward child-centric parenting in contemporary society.
